Us: A novel by David Nicholls

(Thank you to the publisher and TLC Book Tours for providing me with a copy of this book!)

about book:

David Nicholls brings the wit and intelligence that graced his enormously popular New York Times bestseller, One Day, to a compellingly human, deftly funny new novel about what holds marriages and families together—and what happens, and what we learn about ourselves, when everything threatens to fall apart.

Douglas Petersen may be mild-mannered, but behind his reserve lies a sense of humor that, against all odds, seduces beautiful Connie into a second date . . . and eventually into marriage. Now, almost three decades after their relationship first blossomed in London, they live more or less happily in the suburbs with their moody seventeen year-old son, Albie. Then Connie tells him she thinks she wants a divorce.

The timing couldn’t be worse. Hoping to encourage her son’s artistic interests, Connie has planned a month-long tour of European capitals, a chance to experience the world’s greatest works of art as a family, and she can’t bring herself to cancel. And maybe going ahead with the original plan is for the best anyway? Douglas is privately convinced that this landmark trip will rekindle the romance in the marriage, and might even help him to bond with Albie.

Narrated from Douglas’s endearingly honest, slyly witty, and at times achingly optimistic point of view, Us is the story of a man trying to rescue his relationship with the woman he loves, and learning how to get closer to a son who’s always felt like a stranger. Us is a moving meditation on the demands of marriage and parenthood, the regrets of abandoning youth for middle age, and the intricate relationship between the heart and the head. And in David Nicholls’s gifted hands, Douglas’s odyssey brings Europe—from the streets of Amsterdam to the famed museums of Paris, from the cafés of Venice to the beaches of Barcelona—to vivid life just as he experiences a powerful awakening of his own. Will this summer be his last as a husband, or the moment when he turns his marriage, and maybe even his whole life, around?

my thoughts:

As a huge fan of One Day by David Nicholls, I was eager to read his next book, Us.  I was especially pleased to learn that it had been longlisted for the Man Book Prize 2014, because I knew that meant it was going to be a great read.  Suffice it to say, the Man Booker committee was right to choose Us.  A contemporary novel that explores a twenty-five year old marriage via a family vacation through Europe is certainly not what I expected - its much more. 

Douglas tells us the tale of how he met, married, and reared a child with Connie through flashbacks, as the couple and their seventeen year old son travel through Europe.  You see, Connie decided that they should use the summer before their son, Albie, heads off to university as a way to bond and spend some quality time together.  Of course, Douglas didn't count on Connie informing him that she wanted out of their marriage - and on the eve of departure no less!  Ack!  Douglas is upset, hurt, confused, and doesn't know what to do about Connie's confession.  So, they head off to Paris in the hopes of enjoying their time together (and Douglas hopes that this trip will change Connie's mind).  However, not all family vacations are going to turn out how you envisioned.  In the Petersens case, there are complaints on the first day - too much luggage, not enough alone time, scheduled tour stops, etc.  Seems like no one is too happy to be embarking on a trip that will have the trio spending all their time together - well, except for Douglas who is hoping to rekindle his marriage with Connie and create some father-son memories with Albie. 

This family is unhappy - plain and simple.  Douglas had no idea that his wife was thinking about leaving him - he didn't even realize that their marriage was no longer working.  As for Albie, well, they never really had a strong relationship, as Albie was more of a mama's boy and tended to connect with his mother over their shared interest of art and the bohemian lifestyle she once lived.  Feeling like a bit of an outsider, Douglas' perspective on his relationships are a bit skewed from that vantage point.  He doesn't seem to understand where this dissension is truly coming from - he just thinks that he's tried so hard to love them that he's done enough.  Learning about their marriage and their son, I couldn't help but feel sorry for Douglas at times.  I found Connie to be rather selfish and did think that she preferred to be with her art friends more than Douglas - he was right on that count.  As for Albie, I can't really seem to pick up on when exactly he fell out of love with his dad - what happened to cause this rift?  Of course, I haven't finished the book just yet, so perhaps Nicholls reveals the moment when all the walls came tumbling down in Casa Petersen.  I'm at the point in the story where the trip has unraveled and people have separated and Douglas is now on a mission of redemption (of sorts).  I can't wait to find out what happens in Venice.  I have to admit I'm loving reading about all of the cities they visit in Europe - its a lovely way to travel.

Nicholls has written a wonderful story about a family in disarray.  He's created such flawed and realistic characters, that you can easily relate to.  He's written about their relationships with such authenticity that you can feel the tension in the air when Douglas doesn't side with his son during a fight at the hotel.  And the use of flashbacks to learn about the history of these relationships is fascinating, especially as we get to understand just how delicate these relationships already were before the Grand Tour of Europe.  I love how Nicholls makes you feel such empathy for Douglas and has you questioning Connie's devotion to their marriage.  As for Albie, he's a character unto himself that I just find to be irritating and rather bratty.  I am really enjoying reading this book and can't help but find myself on Douglas' side thus far.  Of course, I still have quite a number of pages to go, so who knows where I'll find myself siding with by the novel's end.  Either way, I am truly enjoying immersing myself in Nisholls' world.  This man really knows how to capture the fragility of family and love so well - its apparent how much thought he's put into these characters and their problems.  I love his writing!

Anyhow, I'm off to finish Us.  The weather is dark and rainy, so its perfect for reading.  All I need is a cuppa and I'm set.  Hope you are enjoying your current read.  And, if you are on the lookout for your next book, check out Us by David Nicholls - its perfect for fans of Nicholls and fans of fiction.  Here's the TLC Book Tour schedule for: Us

Thank you to the publisher and TLC Book Tours for providing me with a copy of this book!

One Day by David Nicholls

From back of book:

It's 1988 and Dexter Mayhew and Emma Morley have only just met.  They both know that the next day, after college graduation, they must go their separate ways.  But after only one day together, they cannot stop thinking about one another.  As the years go by, Dex adn Em begin to lead separate lives - lives very different from the people they once dreamed they'd become.  And yet, unable to let go of that special something that grabbed onto them that first night, an extraordinary relationship develops between the two. 

Over twenty years, snapshots of that relationship are revealed on the same day - July 15th - of each year.  Dex and Em face squabbles and fights, hopes and missed opportunities, laughter and tears.  And as the true meaning of this one crucial day is revealed, they must come to grips with the nature of love and life itself.

My thoughts:

Hmmm.  This is a book that slowly grew on me.  At first, I wasn't really sure I even wanted to finish it, but somewhere along the way, I found myself wanting to find out what would happen to "Dex and Em, Em and Dex".  Its a book that I would categorize as a cross between lad lit and chick lit - which is not a bad thing.  The writing is engaging and the characters are depicted as flawed and somewhat damaged and the flow of the story is up and down, which is rather representative of the various places in life that "Dex and Em, Em and Dex" are at with each other and in their lives.  And let me say, that these two are often at odds with one another with regards to their romantic feelings toward one another and their significant others - which I suppose is typical when you are trying to stretch out the plot of a "will they every get together?" type of story.  Admittedly it was rather fun to read about their attempts to find themselves, because I could relate to their dilemma of accepting the fact that what you dreamt about in your youth may not come to fruition as quickly as you wanted or, at all.  And yet, I hoped that the time would come when "Dex and Em, Em and Dex" would finally couple up and live happily ever after - Yes, I know, its rather sappy, but I wanted my happy ending. Lo and behold I did not get it, instead I got rather angry with a certain event that occurred towards the end of the story and let me just say that I found myself comparing this tome to those western television shows from back in the day - the ones in which the female characters always die, because after all, you can't have the male leads tied down to one woman, right? UGH!  From that point on I found myself looking at this book with disappointment and muttering the word, "Typical." underneath my breath.  I thought to myself, that I would rather the two characters remained solid best friends throughout their lives, instead of having them get together - because that was the end of the beginning for them. And though the book ended with a look at how their first day together in 1988 was brought to a close, it also showed us just how much they truly liked each other from the get go - but yet, I still wasn't pleased.  Don't get me wrong, this is a book I would recommend, because at the end of the day, it is well written and quite engaging.  I just didn't like the bit about the dying.  Hmmm. Does make me wonder what anyone else thinks about the death and the way things turned out for "Dex and Em, Em and Dex".  Am I the only one who didn't like it?

Anyhow, I'm off to finish The Hunger Games - I finally got hooked and have to keep reading!! Cheers!